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Ban Marriage, It Is A Scam – Saida Boj

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In a bold and controversial statement, activist and social commentator, Sarah Idaji Phone, popularly known as Saida Boj has called for the banning of marriage, claiming that the institution overwhelmingly favours men, leaving women disadvantaged and trapped.

Boj, in her fiery remarks, argued that marriage is a scam that reduces women to tools for childbirth and strips them of their identity, confidence, and mental health.

“Marriage na scam, make dem ban am because na only men e dey benefit,” Boj stated.

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She criticized societal expectations surrounding marriage, emphasizing that women are often pressured into the role of childbearers while losing their sense of self in the process.

She highlighted the double standards prevalent in marriages, where men are given a pass for infidelity while women face severe judgment.

“If married man cheats, no wahala, e dey ok. But if the woman cheat, dem go call her Ashawo, irresponsible mother,” she said.

Boj drew attention to the harsh societal backlash faced by women who seek the same freedoms their unfaithful husbands enjoy.

Boj cited the case of a woman who endured a cheating husband for 12 years, yet faced widespread criticism and mockery when she attempted to retaliate by being unfaithful herself.

According to her, such scenarios reveal the deep-rooted inequality and unfair expectations imposed on women within the institution of marriage.

Addressing women directly, Boj urged them to reflect on their own happiness and well-being, asking, “Can you not see that you do not have a life of your own? Can you not see that you’ve lost yourself, can you not see that you are not happy?”

Saida Boj’s statements have sparked intense debate on social media, with some applauding her for addressing the often-ignored struggles of women in marriage, while others have criticized her views as extreme and one-sided.

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Olajumoke Onibread Accuses Ex-Husband Of Assault, Career Sabotage

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Model Olajumoke Orisaguna, popularly known as Olajumoke Onibread, has opened up about her traumatic experiences in her marriage, accusing her ex-husband, Sunday Orisaguna, of domestic violence and ruining her career.

In an interview with City FM, Olajumoke shared harrowing details of her past, highlighting the abuse she endured during her time in her ex-husband’s family home in Ire, Osun State.

“We stayed in my husband’s family house at Ire in Osun State, and there is no way you stay in such a place that you would not encounter problems,” she recounted.

Olajumoke revealed that her mother-in-law’s hostility exacerbated the situation, as her ex-husband often sided with his mother without hearing her perspective.

“He would not hear my own side of the story before beating me. Whenever I had a misunderstanding with his mother, he would beat me to the extent that my face and body would be swollen. Sometimes he would even use a belt,” she said.

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She further explained how she kept the abuse hidden to avoid upsetting her mother, who also lived nearby. Despite the hardships, Olajumoke continued to support the family financially, as her husband was unemployed.

Reflecting on a pivotal moment in January 2016, Olajumoke described the day she decided to leave:
“We were frying akara for his dad’s remembrance when I had an issue with his elder sister. As usual, he beat me up, and I decided that I was going to leave, move to Lagos, and start working at the bakery because I had been there before.”

Three days later, she relocated to Lagos with her two children. According to Olajumoke, the separation led to further challenges as her ex-husband began tarnishing her reputation, contributing to her career’s decline.

“Everything started going down the drain after separation because he started spoiling my name. Since then, things started going down,” she lamented.

Olajumoke, who rose to fame in 2016 after a chance encounter during a photoshoot with British rapper Tinie Tempah and photographer TY Bello, is now using her platform to shed light on the struggles she endured.

The model’s story has reignited conversations about domestic abuse and the societal pressures faced by women in similar situations.

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Fans Celebrate Davido As Nigerian Superstar Turns 32

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Nigerian music icon Davido, popularly known as ‘OBO,’ is being celebrated across the globe as he marks his 32nd birthday today, November 21.

Fans, supporters, and friends have flooded social media with goodwill messages, prayers, and tributes to honour the Unavailable crooner.

In a heartfelt post on his X (formerly Twitter) account, Davido expressed gratitude for reaching this milestone. “Big 32 soon! Omo, God is good. Happy to be alive! My eyes don see shege! But steady my fans dey shout shekpe!” he wrote, reflecting on his journey and the unwavering support of his fan base, the ‘30BG.’

Fans were quick to shower the superstar with love and admiration:

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@prettymfon wrote: “OBO baddest!!! 30BG everywhere you go!!! Happy birthday to the real GOAT, 001. God bless you more and more. May you live long to reap the fruits of your labour. Enjoy!!!”

@AbiolaBlackdiva added: “Happy birthday baba ibeji.”

@Big_Rosie_ celebrated with: “We mount and still shouting Shekpe 001 happy big 32.”

In a generous act of celebration, Davido’s wife, Chioma Adeleke, announced a giveaway of ₦40 million to 200 people, encouraging participants to subscribe to a YouTube channel as part of the entry process. She posted on X: “To celebrate Davido’s birthday today, I’ll be sharing ₦40million to 200 people. All you have to do is subscribe to the YouTube channel below and drop a screenshot as proof! Good-luck!!!”

Adding to the festivities, Mr Jay Autos LLC, an auto dealership, gifted Davido a brand-new Escalade 600 Premium Luxury. In an announcement, the company stated: “On your birthday our brand Mr Jay Autos LLC has decided to gift you this new Escalade 600 Premium Luxury. We appreciate your patronage and love for the brand. Happy birthday oriade @davido cheers to many more years.”

Davido, who has consistently dominated the Nigerian and global music scene, continues to inspire millions with his talent, resilience, and generosity. As the celebrations unfold, fans worldwide remain united in wishing the 30BG leader more success and happiness in the years to come.

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JUST IN: Nigerian Beauty Queen, Chidimma Adetshina Quits Peageantry

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Nigerian beauty queen and Miss Universe runner-up, Chidimma Adetshina has revealed her decision to step away from beauty pageants.

Speaking candidly about her future plans, she shared, “I am putting pageant to bed. I’m going to focus more on my education and establishing who Chidimma is. More into runways. So many things I would like to touch on and see where my potential can go to.”

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Adetshina’s decision comes after a challenging experience during her participation in the Miss Universe competition.

Following this chapter of her life, she has chosen to shift her priorities toward her education, acting aspirations, and exploring her potential in other fields.

Having recently returned to Nigeria from South Africa, where she encountered personal hurdles, Adetshina expressed resilience and a positive outlook. “I hold no grudges,” she noted, emphasizing her focus on growth and new opportunities.

Her announcement has sparked widespread conversations, with many admirers and industry stakeholders praising her courage to redefine her journey.

As she steps into this new phase, Adetshina is determined to embrace fresh challenges and make her mark in diverse areas of interest.

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