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Ban Marriage, It Is A Scam – Saida Boj
In a bold and controversial statement, activist and social commentator, Sarah Idaji Phone, popularly known as Saida Boj has called for the banning of marriage, claiming that the institution overwhelmingly favours men, leaving women disadvantaged and trapped.
Boj, in her fiery remarks, argued that marriage is a scam that reduces women to tools for childbirth and strips them of their identity, confidence, and mental health.
“Marriage na scam, make dem ban am because na only men e dey benefit,” Boj stated.
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She criticized societal expectations surrounding marriage, emphasizing that women are often pressured into the role of childbearers while losing their sense of self in the process.
She highlighted the double standards prevalent in marriages, where men are given a pass for infidelity while women face severe judgment.
“If married man cheats, no wahala, e dey ok. But if the woman cheat, dem go call her Ashawo, irresponsible mother,” she said.
Boj drew attention to the harsh societal backlash faced by women who seek the same freedoms their unfaithful husbands enjoy.
Boj cited the case of a woman who endured a cheating husband for 12 years, yet faced widespread criticism and mockery when she attempted to retaliate by being unfaithful herself.
According to her, such scenarios reveal the deep-rooted inequality and unfair expectations imposed on women within the institution of marriage.
Addressing women directly, Boj urged them to reflect on their own happiness and well-being, asking, “Can you not see that you do not have a life of your own? Can you not see that you’ve lost yourself, can you not see that you are not happy?”
Saida Boj’s statements have sparked intense debate on social media, with some applauding her for addressing the often-ignored struggles of women in marriage, while others have criticized her views as extreme and one-sided.
Controversial Nigerian singer Darlington Okoye, popularly known as Speed Darlington or Akpi, has been released from Kuje Prison following a court directive.
Activist lawyer Deji Adeyanju disclosed this development on Tuesday, stating on X (formerly Twitter), “Speed Darlington is out of Kuje Prison.”
The singer’s release came after an Abuja court granted him bail. This decision followed intense public pressure on the Nigeria Police Force, which led to his arraignment.
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Prior to his release, Speed Darlington had petitioned Deputy Inspector-General of Police, Force Intelligence Bureau, DIG Dasuki Galadanchi, over his prolonged detention. He called on the DIG to comply with a court order directing his release or formal arraignment.
Justice M.S. Liman had earlier issued an order on December 23, 2024, mandating the police to charge the singer within 48 hours or release him unconditionally.
Speed Darlington’s arrest stemmed from allegations he made against Grammy Award-winning singer Burna Boy. The singer accused Burna Boy of being involved in an immoral relationship with embattled U.S. rapper and music executive Sean Combs, also known as P. Diddy.
The situation has sparked widespread discussions, with many Nigerians expressing relief at Speed Darlington’s freedom while others continue to debate the circumstances surrounding his arrest.
Veteran Nollywood actor, Dele Odule, has opened up about the most heartbreaking moment of his life, revealing it was when he lost his first child.
The 63-year-old Yoruba movie icon shared the emotional experience during an interview with his colleague, Kunle Afod, recounting how the loss deeply affected him, especially given the challenges surrounding the child’s birth.
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Odule described the tragic news as “very hard” to bear, adding that he has since come to accept it as the will of God. Despite the acceptance, the actor expressed his fervent hope never to endure such a devastating tragedy again.
He said, “The saddest moment of my life was when I was called that my first child died. It was very hard on me. It was hard because of the situation faced during the child’s birth, but no one can question God’s authority. It was so bad that I don’t pray for it anymore.”
Known for his roles in classic Yoruba films, Odule continues to share both his professional and personal experiences, endearing himself to fans and colleagues alike.
In early January 2025, Grammy-winning Nigerian artist Burna Boy fulfilled a promise by gifting $30,000 to Bethel Okechukwu, a phone repairer from Alaba Market who had claimed to be related to socialite Cubana Chief Priest.
This act of generosity occurred amid an ongoing feud between Burna Boy and the Cubana Chief Priest.
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Following the donation, Cubana Chief Priest clarified that Bethel Okechukwu is not his brother, stating, “I have only one biological big brother & two kid sisters. They ain’t doing so bad.” He emphasized that he is not obligated to support his siblings financially and urged the public to verify such claims.
As of now, there are no credible reports indicating that Burna Boy instructed Bethel Okechukwu to take any specific actions towards Cubana Chief Priest after receiving the $30,000. The narrative appears to be centered around Burna Boy’s charitable gesture and Cubana Chief Priest’s subsequent clarification regarding his familial relationships.
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