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Stop dating broke women – Solomon Buchi advices men

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Stop dating broke women - Solomon Buchi advices men

 

Olusanya Funmilayo

Nigerian writer and life coach, Solomon Buchi has advised his followers to desist from dating women who are not financially stable.

Taking to his official Twitter account on Thursday the writer stated that men should avoid women who do not like to make their own money.

He wrote: “Men, stop dating broke women. They won’t help you grow. They’ll drain you. They need money for everything, even for oxygen. They hate work, but they love soft life. Check their IG, you’ll think they’re millionaires. Avoid dating broke women, but give them jobs if you can, but they hate working though. So it’s a lose-lose case.”

Buchi’s article drew largely female criticism, both constructive and negative, as they emphasized that being broke and productive is different from being broke and lazy.

See the reactions:

@successib said: “What is your definition of broke?? Imagine having a girlfriend in medical school who cannot survive without your support. It’s just a temporary situation and u cannot tell us not to support them because they are broke.”

@jenny_innocent wrote: “There is a thin line between broke and laziness. What you analysed are attributes of lazy women. Being broke doesn’t automatically mean one is lazy.”

@EvelynFolu said: “Forgive me @Solomon_Buchi , it’s not broke women, it’s lazy women. There are broke women who are hardworking but their jobs ain’t commensurate. Too many mouths to feed but would never bill a guy for money or even accept money from their boyfriend even if you put a knife.”

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@AgboolaBukolaS1 stated: “But ma @EvelynFolu I don’t think any woman that can pay her own bills should be classified as broke, tho she might not have a car, a house, or even afford to buy herself a wig but she is living within her income. I don’t think that should  be called broke.”

@joeinstein wrote: “Wo, Buchi, we’re all broke in this Nigerian right now. I do 9-5, still have my errand business and I’m not in the present “average/comfort” set of Nigerians. Stop feeding people audacious takes abeg!”

Earlier this year Buchi received backlash from his followers after he posted a message about his fiancée not being the most beautiful or intelligent.

The post reads: “You’re not the most beautiful woman; neither are you the most intelligent woman, but I’ve chosen to never find perfection in anyone else. I put my gaze on you, and with that commitment, we would mold ourselves for ourselves. Our perfection is in our commitment.”

Despite being criticized, Buchi doubles up on his rhetoric insisting his woman knows what he meant, and he will block everyone who disagrees or insults him.

It gets worse for him when his caption moves from the Nigerian coast and is posted on TheShadeRoom, a well-known Instagram account in the US.

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Nollywood Mourns as Veteran Actor Francis Duru Dies at 57

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The Nigerian film industry has been thrown into mourning following the death of veteran Nollywood actor Francis Duru, who died at the age of 57 after a brief illness.

Duru’s family announced his death on Friday in a statement shared on the actor’s official Instagram page. The National President of the Actors Guild of Nigeria (AGN), Abubakar Yakubu, also confirmed the development.

Born on July 27, 1969, Duru rose to prominence for his portrayal of Ahanna in Amaka Igwe’s 1995 film Rattlesnake, a role that helped establish him as a recognisable face in Nollywood.

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The actor featured in several other productions throughout his career, including Blood Money and Merry Men, earning recognition for his contributions to Nigerian film and television.

Over the years, Duru established himself as a veteran performer whose work contributed to the growth and development of the Nigerian entertainment industry.

His death comes months after he dismissed speculation about his health following the circulation of a video in June that raised concerns among fans.

Duru’s passing marks a loss for Nollywood, with colleagues, fans and other entertainment industry stakeholders expected to pay tribute to the actor and celebrate his contributions to Nigerian cinema.

 

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Ekuafeh Explores Human Uniqueness, Bond, Connection in Unity Forged in Clay

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Nigerian ceramic sculptor and artist, Chris Onaivi Ekuafeh, has opened Unity Forged in Clay, a solo exhibition that draws on clay, culture and personal experience to explore one of humanity’s enduring questions, “How can people remain different and still belong together?”

The exhibition opened on Saturday, September 26, at Quintessence Gallery, Victoria Island, Lagos, and continues until October 10, 2026.

Featuring 13 ceramic works, Unity Forged in Clay is Ekuafeh’s first solo exhibition on Nigerian soil and follows his first solo show in China in 2025, after a residency at the Taoxichuan Arts Centre in Jingdezhen, one of the world’s historic centres of ceramic art. At the heart of the exhibition are two deceptively simple questions: What is unity? And are we united as a people?

Ekuafeh, however, thinks unity does not necessarily have to demand uniformity. “Unity, for me, is not sameness,” he said. The idea is reflected throughout a body of work in which distinct forms, patterns, faces and cultural references coexist while retaining their individual character. “Unity unveils to me bits and pieces of different entities coming together to achieve a thing,” he said.

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Works in the exhibition include Identity, Where We Connect, What the Fire Kept and Kin, with titles across English, Yoruba and Ekuafeh’s native Igarra language. The choice of language, like the forms themselves, is driven by the story and meaning of each piece rather than by a single cultural frame.

The works reflect a creative journey formed across several Nigerian environments and traditions. Born in Kano and trained at Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, where he studied Industrial Design with a specialisation in ceramics, Ekuafeh says his exposure to northern Nigerian architecture and material culture first awakened his fascination with clay.

The geometric patterns associated with northern architecture continue to appear in his work, while the distinctive faces he carves into some of his pieces draw from his Edo heritage. Lagos, where he now lives and works, has added another layer to the practice, exposing him to contemporary artistic influences and encouraging an increasingly research-driven approach. The result is an artistic vocabulary in which culture, identity, spirituality, emotion, community and human connection repeatedly intersect.

Ekuafeh said clay is more than a convenient artistic medium. His relationship with the material begins from sourcing from the earth, digging, preparing and processing the clay before shaping it into finished work. That physical process has become part of his understanding of both creativity and human experience.

The work captures that connection through scenes of the artist working directly with clay – pressing, shaping, carving and building – alongside reflections on diversity, fracture, belonging and the continuous work required to sustain unity. Rather than provide predetermined answers, Unity Forged in Clay invites viewers to arrive at their own.

Individual works combine sculptural forms with recurring markings, human features and patterns that encourage closer looking. Some begin with sketches and carefully developed ideas; others evolve more organically as Ekuafeh works with the material, allowing the form to develop alongside the thought that inspired it.

This tension between intention and discovery is central to his practice. Clay becomes both material and collaborator. And the exhibition is a visible expression of the process. Unity Forged in Clay is an opportunity to bring years of experimentation, cultural inquiry and technical practice into a focused solo presentation before returning to the studio to develop the next body of work, Ekuafeh said.

Beyond that, however, Unity Forged in Clay leaves its larger question with the audience. “If different particles of earth can be worked, fired and brought together without losing the marks that make each form distinctive, what might that suggest about people, communities and society?”

Photo Caption: From Left, Ofuma Agali, Business Lead, The Candella & Company; Saheedat Lawal, Gallery Supervisor, Quintessence Gallery; and Chris Ekuafeh; at Ekuafeh’s ‘Unity Forged in Clay’ exhibition, held at Quintessence Gallery, Victoria Island, Lagos, Saturday, 26 September 2026

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JUST IN: Veteran Actor Olu Jacobs Dies at 84

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Veteran Nigerian actor and film executive, Oludotun Baiyewu Jacobs, popularly known as Olu Jacobs, has died at the age of 84.

His death was announced by his son, Olusoji Jacobs, in a statement shared on Instagram on Wednesday, September 16, 2026.

The family described the late actor as “The Lion of Lufodo” and appealed to bloggers and social media influencers to respect their privacy as they mourned his passing.

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“It is with gratitude to God for a life well lived and fought, that we announce the passing of our dear husband, father, grandfather and uncle. The Lion of Lufodo,” the statement read.

The family identified him as Oludotun Baiyewun Jacobs, MFR, and gave his dates as July 11, 1942, to September 16, 2026.

Jacobs was one of Nigeria’s most recognised veteran actors, with a career spanning theatre, television and film.

 

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