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Ten (10) Tips For You To Satisfy Your Partner In A Relationship (Part 1)
A romantic relationship is a close emotional and/or sexual relationship between two people. It is characterized by feelings of love, affection, and commitment, and typically involves a level of intimacy and physical closeness.
Romantic relationships can take many forms and can exist between people of any gender or sexual orientation. They can be long-term or short-term, and may or may not include marriage or other forms of commitment.
It is important to remember that every individual is unique and what pleases one person may not please another. However, some general ways to please a girl include:
1.) Communication
Communication is a foundation to a good relationship. Being open and honest about your thoughts and feelings allows for a generous flow of communication and often avoids misunderstandings.
Communication is key when it comes to pleasing your girlfriend. Make sure to actively listen to her when she speaks and express your own thoughts and feelings clearly.
However, this intentional clarity is easier said than done, especially when it comes to communicating with your significant other. As we grow closer, we also get used to one another and take each other’s attention for granted.
Most men get so busy that they do not remember calling thier soulmate, and most think only immature people communicate always, the truth is it hurts girls most when you don’t reach out to them.
Don’t be a hard man, make sure you are communicating with your girlfriend no matter how busy you might be, call her, text her. There is no relationship without communication.
2.) Commitment
Commitment in a relationship means being dedicated and loyal to your partner. It means willing to work through challenges and difficulties, and to put in the effort to make the relationship successful.
Show her that you are committed to the relationship by being dependable and keeping your promises. This will build trust and make her feel secure in the relationship.
3.) Compromise
In a relationship, compromise involves both partners making sacrifices or concessions in order to find a solution that works for both of them. For example, a man may compromise by agreeing to go to a movie or event that he is not particularly interested in because his girlfriend wants to see it.
Another example could be him to agree to change his lifestyle or behavior that his girlfriend does not approve of. This shows that he is willing to make sacrifices in order to make the relationship work and keep his girlfriend happy.
As a man, be willing to compromise and work through conflicts together. Show her that you are willing to put in the effort to make the relationship work.
4.) Physical Touch
In a relationship, men may often initiate physical touch as a way of expressing affection and intimacy. This can include things like holding hands, hugging, kissing, and cuddling.
Physical touch can also be used as a way of showing protection and dominance although it can vary from person to person, relationship to relationship, therefore it is important to know how and the way your girlfriend wants you to touch her. This can be as simple as holding her hand or giving her a hug when she needs it.
Show her affection and make physical touch a priority in your relationship.
5.) Honesty
Honesty refers to the quality of being truthful and straightforward in one’s actions and statements. It is the adherence to the facts and refusal to deceive or mislead.
Honesty is a crucial component in any relationship. It is important to be truthful and transparent with your partner in order to build trust and maintain a healthy relationship. Honesty also helps to address and resolve conflicts and issues that may arise in a relationship. Honesty allows for open communication and understanding between partners.
As a man, be honest, open and authentic with your feelings and actions. Show her that you truly care and love her and be true to yourself and she’ll have no doubt that you are putting in the effort to make her happy.
6.) Surprises
Girls love surprises, show her that you care about her by planning thoughtful surprises and date nights. These doesn’t have to be expensive, but the effort you put in will mean a lot to her.
Here are some suggestions for surprising a girl:
Plan a romantic picnic with her favorite food and drinks.
Write her a love letter and hide it for her to find.
Plan a surprise trip to her favorite destination.
Give her a spa day with a massage and pampering treatments.
Plan a scavenger hunt that leads to a special gift or surprise.
Cook her a special meal or bake her favorite dessert.
Rent a rooftop and set up a movie night under the stars.
Fill a room with balloons and rose petals for a special occasion.
Create a slideshow of your memories together and show it to her.
7.) Appreciate Her
Show appreciation for the little things she does for you and the relationship. A simple thank you can go a long way in making her feel appreciated.
8.) Respect
Show her that you respect her opinions and decisions, and that you are willing to take her feelings into consideration. This will make her feel valued and respected.
9.) Set Goals With Her
Show her that you are constantly working on bettering yourself and the relationship. This can be done by setting goals and working towards them together. Make long-term plans and goals with your girlfriend, and be willing to grow and evolve as a couple.
10.) Love what she loves
Show interest in her passions and hobbies, and make an effort to understand and support them. This will make her feel valued and appreciated.
It’s important to keep in mind that every relationship is unique and what works for one couple may not work for another. The key to pleasing your girlfriend is to truly understand her needs and wants and make an effort to meet them in the best way possible.
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‘I Dress To Inspire Young People’ – Pastor Adegboyega Defends Lavish Lifestyle
Embattled Nigerian pastor and founder of SPAC Nation, Tobi Adegboyega, has defended his opulent lifestyle, claiming it serves to inspire young people rather than flaunt wealth.
This statement comes amid a UK Immigration Upper Tribunal ruling ordering his deportation over visa violations.
Adegboyega, 44, faced accusations of overstaying his visitor visa, which expired after he arrived in the UK in 2005.
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He had applied to remain in the country on human rights grounds. The tribunal, however, ruled against him, citing his failure to regularize his status.
The pastor’s luxurious lifestyle, including designer clothing and expensive cars, was a focal point of the case.
Addressing the tribunal, Adegboyega stated that his lifestyle is fully funded by his wife, Mary Olubukola Alade, who earns £100,000 annually at AON.
He said, “I live with my partner, Mary Olubukola Alade, who earns £100,000 per year working for AON. I spend my time working for the church, for which I am unpaid. I am entirely supported by Mary. I have a first-class law degree from Nigeria, but I have ‘sacrificed’ my legal career to help those who cannot help themselves.”
Defending his appearance, Adegboyega emphasized the importance of projecting success to his young congregation.
The court noted, “For instance, people have pointed to the fact that he wears designer clothing and drives expensive cars. He was adamant that all of his personal possessions had been paid for by Mary.
“He believes it is important for him to dress the way that he does because he needs to inspire these young people – they need to understand that there are legitimate ways of making money, for instance through entrepreneurship.”
Despite the ruling, Adegboyega dismissed the deportation concerns as insignificant.
“I’m right here at home, no cause for alarm. Naturally, I will dismiss things that have to do with retrogression; every Nigerian should be proud of me. Living in the UK, a city that is well known for pulling people down, I have survived all sorts, so the matter that they are propagating is the smallest matter,” he said.
He further expressed confidence in his resilience. “No panic, I love London city, it is my city, and nobody can do anything. Of all the people of colour you know here – pastors and leaders – I have survived everything. I’m here, I am at home, nobody should panic for me.
“I succeeded well in this country despite all challenges, and I’m in the league of people you look up to. I have survived that well; nothing has changed, nothing will change,” he added.
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Afe Babalola Breaks Silence On Farotimi’s Arrest
Amid the growing controversy surrounding the detention of human rights lawyer Dele Farotimi, renowned Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN) Aare Afe Babalola has publicly addressed the defamation allegations leveled against Farotimi.
The legal action stems from claims made in Farotimi’s book, Nigeria and Its Criminal Justice System, which Babalola asserts contains false and defamatory statements about him and his law firm, Afe Babalola & Co.
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In a petition dated November 19 and submitted to the Ekiti State Commissioner of Police, Adeniran Akinwale, Babalola accused Farotimi of making “criminally defamatory” statements about him, his law firm, and two senior lawyers at his firm, Olu Daramola SAN and Ola Faro.
The defamatory remarks are tied to the Supreme Court case Major Muritala Gbadamosi Eletu & Ors v. H.R.H. Oba Tijani Akinloye & Ors.
Babalola revealed that the allegations came to light when one of his lawyers purchased Farotimi’s book while traveling through Murtala Muhammed Airport.
After reading the book, the lawyer immediately brought its contents to Babalola’s attention.
Other members of his firm reportedly did the same, prompting the senior lawyer to take legal action.
In his petition, Babalola pointed to specific passages in Farotimi’s book that accused him of corruption and unethical conduct. The petition reads:
“I write to report the criminal defamation of myself, my law firm Afe Babalola & Co., and my lawyers, Olu Daramola SAN and Ola Faro, by one Dele Farotimi in his book titled ‘Nigeria and Its Criminal Justice System’, published by Dele Farotimi Publishers, in respect of Suit No. SC/146/2005: Major Muritala Gbadamosi Eletu & Ors v. H.R.H. Oba Tijani Akinloye & Ors.
“Sometime on 2/11/2024, one of our lawyers, while traveling through Murtala Muhammed Airport, bought a book by Dele Farotimi titled ‘Nigeria and Its Criminal Justice System’. He read the book and immediately brought it to my attention. Many of my lawyers also bought the book and read it.”
“The defamatory statements are as follows:
- That Aare Afe Babalola corrupted the Supreme Court to procure a fraudulent judgment in the service of his client.
- That Aare Afe Babalola, Olu Daramola, Olu Faro, and the law offices of Afe Babalola & Co. (Emmanuel Chambers) compromised the Supreme Court and the remaining semblance of integrity it might have had, when they went back to the Supreme Court and got the Court to swim in the sewer of corruption and shameful self-abnegation.”
Babalola strongly denies the allegations, claiming that they are false and damaging to both his personal reputation and the integrity of the Nigerian judiciary.
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Dele Farotimi’s Book Becomes Amazon Bestseller Amid Defamation Saga
Nigerian author and activist Dele Farotimi’s book, Nigeria and Its Criminal Justice System, has surged to bestseller status on Amazon amid a legal battle with prominent lawyer and businessman, Afe Babalola.
The controversy surrounding the book has captivated public attention, driving both online and offline demand.
The book, which critiques systemic corruption in Nigeria’s judiciary and highlights alleged misconduct by key legal figures, saw modest sales following its release in July 2024.
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However, Farotimi’s arrest on Tuesday, following a petition filed by the 93-year-old Babalola, triggered a wave of public curiosity.
By Thursday evening, it had climbed to the top of Amazon’s bestseller rankings, according to checks by Vanguard. Bookstores across Nigeria also reported a significant uptick in demand.
Biztellers reports that Farotimi was detained in Lagos by armed police officers and transported to Ado Ekiti, about 300 kilometers northeast of the city, where Babalola is based.
The senior lawyer alleged that the book accused him of compromising Nigeria’s judiciary—a claim that has sparked heated debates about freedom of speech and accountability in the legal profession.
On Wednesday, Farotimi was arraigned in an Ekiti court, where the judge ordered his remand pending a bail hearing scheduled for December 10.
Farotimi’s legal team has vowed to contest the charges, framing the case as an attack on intellectual freedom.