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How my stepfather sexually abused me for six years – Singer Temmie Ovwasa

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How my stepfather sexually abused me for six years - Singer Temmie Ovwasa

 

Nigerian musician, Temmie Ovwasa has revealed how her stepfather allegedly abuses her sexually for six years. She also stated that her mother aided him by not believing her.

In a series of tweets on Friday, she revealed that she had wanted to tell the story for a long time, but was waiting for her mother to die because she didn’t want her to bear the shame.

The former YBNL princess claimed that her stepfather was to blame for her mental instability, which led to her being referred to as a miserable and insane woman.

Temmie Ovwasa also talked about how she was dismissed by her mother after she opened up because she believed her stepfather, who offered a different side of the story.

She said her stepfather shared details of the abuses in a dairy which her mother found but still stayed in the marriage.

The singer said she would not be at her mother’s funeral, adding that she did not hate her because the system gives women like her nothing.

In her words:

“In the spirit of exposing my stepfather as a sexual predator, I want to state this very clearly, I do not believe in the justice system so if you’ve hurt me sexually, watch your back. I’m not afraid of blood

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“I’ve always wanted to tell this story but I’ve been waiting for my Mother to die because I didn’t want her to bear the shame of it but it’s 2022 angels, and in the spirit of releasing my new project where I talk about some of my experiences, I’ll be sharing this to start off.

“I was sexually abused by my stepfather from age 11 to 17, he groped me, and wrote about it in his diary which my mother found, My first experience with being called mentally unstable after sharing a story was with my mother (which is why you stupid internet trolls don’t faze me)

“After my mother found out she said it was ‘just anal’, according to his dairy, Meaning that it wasn’t such a big deal since I wasn’t ‘penetrated’, I know through and through what a predator looks like, thinks like, I know they never believe they’ve done anything wrong

“This started a cycle in my life, of people calling me mentally unstable, mad, depressed because I was actually, I cut myself for years, in and out of psychosis and you know the best part. Every time I had an opinion about what her husband did, My mother would say it’s psychosis.”

Born Temmie Ovwasa on 29 November 1996, signed a record deal with YBNL Nation in August 2015 but left the label in 2020 after having a disagreement with the label owner Olamide.

Ovwasa is openly lesbian and non-binary.

In 2020, she dropped the first openly gay album in Nigeria.

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Court Slaps Linda Ikeji With N30m Damages To NBM

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A Delta State High Court in Effurun has ruled in favor of the Registered Trustees of the Neo-Black Movement of Africa, awarding them N30 million in damages in a libel case against popular Nigerian blogger, Linda Ikeji.

The lawsuit, with Ese Kakor, Felix Kupa, and Mayor Onyebueke as claimants, resulted in the court ordering Ikeji to pay N300,000 in litigation costs.

Presiding Justice Roli Daibo-Harriman delivered the verdict in Suit No: EHC/210/2021 on Monday.

Additionally, Ikeji was instructed to publish a retraction of the libellous statements on her blog and in national dailies.

Furthermore, Ikeji has been restrained from making further damaging publications against the claimants.

The Neo-Black Movement of Africa (NBM) took the legal action against Linda Ikeji after she allegedly failed to retract and apologize for a defamatory article published on her blog on October 19, 2021.

The article reportedly labeled the NBM of Africa as a dreaded cult group, black axe, and criminal organization, prompting the claimants to seek N1 billion in damages and an unreserved apology to be published on Ikeji’s blog and in two national newspapers.

Justice Daibo-Harriman, in her ruling, deemed the terms “dreaded cultist group,” “black axe,” and “criminal organization” used in the Defendant’s publication as defamatory.

Kelvin Agbroko, Counsel to the Claimants, emphasized that the ruling “Will serve as a lesson to bloggers that it is not every item you publish. It is good to verify information before making a publication.”

He said, “NBM of Africa is a legal organisation duly registered with the Corporate Affairs Commission. The publication made by the Defendant against my client has been cleared that it was a damaging publication.

“NBM is good to go, we are going to take all necessary steps to enforce the terms of the judgment against her. It was an erudite judgement that is all-encompassing and will be difficult to fault.”

Ese Kakor, President of the NBM of Africa, revealed that the legal proceedings regarding the case had been ongoing for approximately two years.

Kakor expressed his dismay at Linda Ikeji’s actions, stating, “What Ikeji did was just to sell in a bid to defame the character of NBM of Africa. It is very wrong.”

He advised other bloggers against following similar steps, cautioning that they may also face litigation for defamation.

Kakor clarified that the NBM of Africa has no association with cultism, black axe, or criminal activities, emphasizing that it is a well-registered organization.

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Tragedy As VGC Chairman Found Dead In His Car

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In a shocking turn of events, Gihan Mbelu, the esteemed chairman of Victoria Garden City in Lagos’s bustling Lekki area, was found lifeless inside his vehicle.

 

His sudden demise has prompts police inquiry into the mysterious circumstances surrounding his death.

The 42-year-old financial luminary and venture capitalist was found unconscious in his opulent C300 4Matic vehicle around 10:10 am on Friday, April 26, 2024.

According to report, Mbelu was swiftly transported to the Lagos University Teaching Hospital, where a doctor on duty confirmed his unfortunate demise.

Meanwhile, concerned individuals took it upon themselves to examine his vehicle, which had been running for hours at the spot where it was parked.

The post reads “Concerned by the discovery, some of the people in the area, upon close observation of the vehicle, found Mbelu in it.

“While some people speculated that the 42-year-old man might be sleeping, some other persons, who were bent on ascertaining Mbelu’s true state, reportedly made frantic efforts to wake him up but it proved abortive.

“In a bid to rescue Mbelu, it was learnt that he was rushed to the Lagos University Teaching Hospital where he was reportedly confirmed dead by one of the doctors on duty.

“Mbelu’s corpse was said to have been deposited in the hospital’s morgue. The case was also reported to the police for an investigation to commence to ascertain the circumstances surrounding Mbelu’s death.”

Prior to his demise, Mbelu was married to Eloho, a distinguished tech entrepreneur, former investment banker, and private equity investor. Together, they are parents to two daughters.

In response to the news, Benjamin Hundeyin, the spokesperson for the state police command, affirmed the incident on Saturday, April 27, disclosing that an investigation has been launched into the matter.

 

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Suleija Jailbreak: Over 100 Inmates Still Unaccounted For – NCoS

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In the aftermath of the escape from its Suleija facility in Niger State, the Nigeria Correctional Service (NCoS) has disclosed the successful recapture of three escaped inmates.

Despite these efforts, 106 inmates are still on the run.

Abubakar Umar, an Assistant Controller and spokesperson for the NCoS, dismissed rumors circulating online suggesting that 50 inmates had been apprehended, clarifying that only three had been recaptured.

He said “Aside from the 10 earlier recaptured, three more have been recaptured. So, we are on the chase of 106.”

He further dismissed reports from television sources alleging over 8,000 escaping inmates nationwide.

He clarified that following heavy rainfall damaging parts of the Suleija facility, at least 119 inmates had escaped.

During a visit to the facility, Minister of Interior, Dr. Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo, underscored the urgency of relocating the correctional center from its current urban location.

He noted that the facility, originally designed for 250 inmates, was accommodating 499 individuals prior to the incident.

He said; ”Obviously, it was a force majeure. There was a storm and there was a breach of the outer wall of this facility and some of the inmates escaped.

“Of course, we have been able to retrieve about 10 out of the 119. So we have 109 at large and the manhunt is presently ongoing. We will do everything possible to make sure that everyone is brought back”.

Additionally, the Service (NCoS) announced its intention to publish the identities of the escapees at a later time.

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